You may think of your “personality” as the self you show to others. But personality is more than a nice smile or sense of humor. It’s the way a person thinks about and relates to the world. A personality disorder can make it hard to relate in healthy ways. But there is hope. A doctor or mental health professional can help.
There are many types of personality disorders, all of which can greatly disrupt the life of the affected person and those around them. People with a personality disorder may have a hard time forming normal relationships. They usually have trouble with school or work. And they may often feel depressed, unhappy, and alone.
No one fully knows what causes personality disorders. They are sometimes due to childhood abuse or neglect. They also may occur when certain brain chemicals are out of balance. Most likely, both biological and environmental factors play a role.
Certain types of talk therapy (counseling) can be effective in treating personality disorders. And medications may help relieve symptoms. Talk therapy and medications are most effective when used together. Many people with personality disorders don’t realize or admit that they need help. But a big part of getting better is to get help. Once you do, it may take a while before treatment begins to work. It’s important to stick with the treatment. Most people with personality disorders who receive good treatment can live a healthier, happier life.
Antisocial Personality Disorder. People with this disorder likely have little concern for others. They may deceive, bully, or even harm others without remorse.
Borderline Personality Disorder. People with this disorder have an intense fear of being alone. Yet they push others away. They may have wide mood swings and change their values and beliefs often.
Dependent Personality Disorder. Though the affected person is a mature adult, he or she has an intense need to be cared for by others.
Histrionic Personality Disorder. An affected person will do almost anything to be the center of attention.
Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD). People with OCPD have a strong need for order, perfection, and control. This often causes them great distress.
Passive-Aggressive Personality Disorder. People with this disorder are often angry and unhappy. They tend to resent people in power, yet not be able to express these feelings in a direct way.
Schizotypal Personality Disorder. An affected person feels intensely anxious in social settings. The person often has distorted perceptions and may behave in socially unacceptable ways.